Butterfly Sex Position | Sex Book

Missionary, the Butterfly is easy to do yet very satisfying for both male and female partners. There isn’t quite as much eye contact here, but the female partner is still positioned in such a way that her lover can stimulate her nipples and clitoris with his hands.

HOW TO DO IT

The Butterfly is a much easier version of the Bridge (see page 161). The male partner is in the exact same position actually, which is on his knees, in between his partner’s legs. However, instead of arching her back up off the floor, the female partner will support herself on a flat surface that is raised. It’s easiest to achieve this position on a bed. The female partner will lie on the bed with her pelvis at the edge of the bed and her feet flat on the floor. If the bed is very high, the male partner can stand, but a lower bed will work better if the male partner would rather be on his knees. He can hold on to her hips for leverage and more control with thrusting. This position is much better for the female partner than the Bridge because it allows her to relax and use something else to support her weight, giving her a better opportunity to actually enjoy it.

WHERE TO DO IT 

The edge of a low bed or futon works best for this one.

PROPS YOU’LL NEED 

None.

DIFFICULTY LEVEL
HER O-METER This position is actually fairly comfortable for her and allows her to experience everything more fully. The g-spot penetration is fair here, while the penile clitoral stimulation isn’t superb.
HIS O-METER This sex position is comfortable for him as well, but it’s not as exotic as he’d like it to be. He does have control over his orgasm here, but it’s just not as exciting for him as the Bridge.

MAKE IT HOTTER . . . A vibrator on her clitoris is the perfect way to give her more pleasure, and if she’s enjoying it more, so is he. She can hold the vibrator or he can—both are fun ways to put a twist on this sex position!